REGISTRATION NOW OPEN FOR 2023 BIENNIAL CONFERENCE-“BACK TO THE FUTURE”
Financial assistance is available to survivors of sexual assault and local programs that provide sexual assault response services to survivors. A limited amount of funds is available for distribution between now and June 15, 2023. Financial assistance is not recurring and is only provided once. Funding is provided for payment or reimbursement of expenses for which a bill or receipt can be provided. This funding will prioritize applicants who have expenses related to an assault that happened in the last 12 months, but other applicants may still apply. Applicants must live in the state of North Carolina.
Survivors of sexual violence can request payment or reimbursement for expenses such as the following when those expenses are related to their assault:
- medical services (hospital or medical bills or co-pays, rape kit)
- emergency transportation
- child care
- emergency housing
- legal representation
This funding can also be used for staff of local programs that provide sexual assault prevention and response services. Specifically, when the request is related to secondary trauma, the funding can provide:
- an advocate therapist
- a group therapy/debrief for staff
To apply, complete the Google Fom. Someone from NCCASA will notify all applicants that their application has been received and if their request has been approved for funding. If you experience any technical difficulties completing this application, please call 919-871-1015 or email@example.com for assistance.
It’s possible we are all a little cagey to get too excited about 2023. Maybe our hope has been a bit dulled by the last couple of years. It may just feel safer to lower the bar when it comes to expectation. However, it’s worth reflecting together that we have weathered some storms and we are all still here! As survivors, advocates, friends and colleagues we have discovered courage and resolve we didn’t know we had. When we shine that light of resilience, we encourage each other to keep on.
What does “light in the darkness” mean to you? Maybe you think about your faith or someone who was a guide or support during a rough time, or when you were able to strengthen another person. Maybe it was a date on the calendar, a powerful memory, or something to look forward to. An old friend we unexpectedly run into at just the right time. That text with an apology or a well-deserved “thank you.” That sacred place where you feel closest to something larger than yourself.
For me, a light in the darkness means hope: hope we receive and hope we give.
It means clarity and presence, whether the light is a part of the collective light of others, or if it shines alone: one small point of light, defying the darkness, refusing to be overcome by it. Maybe it shines though it flickers and is dim, or maybe it glows with steady intensity and heat. Either way, lights in the darkness remind us that we are not alone, and that there IS a way forward.
In January we focus on human trafficking awareness and we have seen significant changes in the North Carolina Anti-Human Trafficking (AHT) landscape in funding, organizational capacity and partnerships. And while there are many bright spots to celebrate, we have more work to do in centering survivors' well-being and implementing public health framework in our programs and strategic planning. We want our work to be impactful in the way it gives hope to others.
We can also be a light in the way we do our work. What would happen if we prioritized:
- impact over output?
- courtesy over competition?
- relationships over influence?
- abundance over scarcity?
- presence over busyness?
- empowering survivors over personal glory?
As we face 2023 with all the joys and challenges it will bring, let’s resolve together to cultivate that which gives light to others. In the very real darkness, let’s resolve to be hope givers.
Courtney Dunkerton, Human Trafficking Program Coordinator
NCCASA is happy to introduce our newly revised Sexual Assault Advocacy Fundamentals Course. This course is broken up into two parts and will provide 20 hours of training for member Rape Crisis Center advocates. If you are an advocate at a state recognized Rape Crisis Center, this training will provide you with the hours and skills needed to have advocate privilege. This training is open to anyone with membership. We have included resources, citations, a link to directly email NCCASA for technical assistance, self-care breaks and quiz’s. This course is intended to replace Sexual Assault 101 and 102 webinar/in person trainings and the previously launched online module “Sexual Assault 101 Learning Course”. We are so excited to offer this new opportunity to members to further their training and capacity and hope that you enjoy your experience. If you have any questions or technical issues, please contact Deanna Harrington at firstname.lastname@example.org. Click here to register.
If you were able to attend the Spring Member Meeting this year, you were part of a spiritual, hopeful, and inspiring talk given by Tai Simpson. Tai is a Social Change Associate with the Idaho Coalition Against Sexual and Domestic Violence. Tai is a storyteller and was generous enough to share her talents and knowledge around storytelling in the anti-sexual violence movement with us. Our goal was to create a story of what does anti- sexual violence work look like in NC and where do we go from here.
Here are some highlights from this time we spent in community:
- Storytelling can be a powerful communication tool. Stories are a way to share with others our experiences, our values, the ways in which we understand and move through this world
- Storytelling creates authentic human connection. Our stories can help us connect with others who share similar stories or relate to our stories in other ways. Stories help us build community, trust, and support.
- “You can’t understand the world without telling a story” -Gerald Vizenor (Anishinabe)
- A quote that Tai shared that was passed down to her through her community was “Be the water, not the rock”. Tai shared the importance of water for her and her ancestors. And that water represents fluidity and flow and that water is always moving, and yet sometimes is still.
- Storytelling can be a powerful tool used by RCCs during many phases of advocacy. We can create opportunities for storytelling during intake instead of standard forms, we can make offerings for storytelling in our support group spaces. Stories nurture imagination and help us practice deep listening. This will allow us to be more present and creative advocates.
As part of this time, Tai also gave three prompts for attendees to engage with. The prompts were:
- How do you love yourself well?
- In a world without violence, I imagine ______
- Collective thriving is ______
The chat box overflowed with thoughtful and hopeful responses. Things like “I love myself well by connecting with my ancestors” , “by recognizing that rest is revolutionary”. In a world without violence I imagine “peace”, “all the fractured parts to be united”, “freedom”, “joy” and collective thriving is “choosing to love”, “connection”, “heaven on Earth”.
We invite those who were unable to attend to share your responses to these prompts either through the use of this jamboard or by emailing us directly. Your responses can be in the form of words, art, graphics. You can send your emails to email@example.com With your responses to these prompts, you’re helping NCCASA envision the future of the anti- sexual violence movement in NC and what we can do to support you in achieving your goals.
During the member meeting, we were also joined by a wonderful artist, Alexandria Clay, who provided us with a graphic rendering of our time together. You can view that image here
We know that many of you have been facilitating virtual support groups throughout the pandemic and though many of our programs have resumed in person, virtual support groups seem to be here to stay. NCCASA and RCC of Coastal Horizons have collaborated on an addendum to our support group manual to bring you information on facilitating virtually, what tools and skills you may need when holding group in a virtual space, what platforms are best, and what to do in case of an emergency. You can access the manual here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/193fbh1MZPKKkOztBadDbN88g09kiOZr3/view?usp=sharing
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Thank you all for your participation in our first Sexual Assault Census Week Survey! It was a huge task to take on during SAAM and you all did amazing. Your hard work and contribution is greatly appreciated.
Congratulations are in order for Hannah’s Place, Inc. as they are our first place winner! Hannah’s Place will receive next year’s NCCASA Membership completely free!
The following agencies are our runners up, and will receive discounted membership for the year:
- Partnership of Ashe- A Safe Home For Everyone
- Rape Crisis Center of Robeson County
- Phoenix Counseling Center
- Steps to HOPE, Inc
- SAFE of Harnett County, Inc
- Hoke County Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault Center
- Turning Point
- Families Living Violence Free
- Safe Space, Inc
Thank you to everyone for your engagement. In the following weeks we will be corresponding with participants and creating infographics to report back the data. Please be on the lookout for updates and emails on Census week. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact Erica Blackwood SADI Specialist at firstname.lastname@example.org.
“Meet your client where they are.” A phrase we’ve all come to hear, but most have yet to master putting into practice. While there are many interpretations of this mantra, I think in our work it means asking our clients what their needs are, what kind of support they need, where they want to start, and moving forward from there. For example, if a survivor discloses to you, but says they’re not ready to share this with their family/ friends yet, following this up with their reporting options may not be what they’re looking for at that moment. It sounds like they’re just trying to figure out how to cope with and process the experience themselves. Your response should be to meet them in that moment. Try to avoid going down a checklist of options that you learned in training and being hyper focused on being professional. Remember, advocacy is not about you. It’s about supporting the person in front of you. Providing support is about empathy and human connection.
A few of us recently attended a training all about trade-offs. A part of this training that really resonated with me and had me looking back on my work with survivors was thinking of trade-offs as deciding what is worth it. I reflected on the survivors who turned down safe shelter in small, rural towns and wanted to stay in the same city (and sometimes the same home) as the person causing them harm. At the time, I didn’t understand this. I thought why would someone choose the potential for more harm over a safe place? With this new perspective, I sat back and thought about the trade-offs the survivor would be making by moving. They may be in safe shelter, but they’re leaving behind their social support. They may have to find a new job to support themselves and their children, which will be much harder without a car and a lack of public transportation. The survivors who made the choice not to leave town, may have decided that financial security, access to resources, and social support made it worth staying even at the risk of more harm.
What we think is “worth it” is important and most of us have already made these decisions based on our values and needs and it’s different for everyone. The lesson here being that what is worth it to you, may not be worth it to the survivor you’re serving and it is not an advocate’s job to change that or dissect that. The advocate has been tasked with listening to what the survivor holds as most valuable, respecting the trade-offs they’re willing to make, and working within that context to help them get what they need to move forward in their healing journey.
Blog post courtesy of Leah Tugwell Poole, Rural Sexual Assault Services Specialist
- NCCASA Members= $125 for all 3 days
- NON NCCASA Members=$175
- Full Time Undergraduate Students=$50
- Single One Day Registration=$75
- A swag box in the mail, full of goodies and surprises
- A virtual happy hour
- Three plenary speakers
- 20 workshops to choose from; opportunity to receive up to 12 training hours
- Workshop recordings
- Self care rooms
- A few other fun surprises!
Click HERE to register today! Anyone who registers before May 10th will receive their Swag box in the mail before the conference!
We look forward to being in community with you all!
April 16, 2021
PLEASE NOTE: If you are a trans woman in Charlotte who is houseless or does not have access to safe housing, DM HouseOfKanautica on Instagram or fill out this form: http://tinyurl.com/saferhousingCLT
The North Carolina Coalition Against Sexual Assault was heartbroken to learn of the targeted attacks against trans women sex workers that took place in Charlotte, NC recently. Jaida Peterson, 29, and the second unidentified woman did not deserve the violence and discrimination they faced. While it is unknown if these two attacks were directly connected, there is one thing that is clear: this kind of deliberate hate, bigotry and intolerance has no place here.
Sex workers are often devalued in our society, and are prevented from accessing safety protections and resources. Black, transgender sex workers are among the most vulnerable members of our communities. It is undeniable that they suffer the most under systems of power and oppression: in 2021, at least 14 transgender or gender non-conforming people have been violently killed in the country, most of whom were Black transgender women. It is important to note that this number is based on reported violent fatal incidents; often these stories are unreported or misreported.
The intersections of racism, sexism, homophobia, biphobia, transphobia undeniably have played a role in these acts of violence. Multiple LGBTQ+ advocacy organizations and activists are urging trans women and the broader LGBTQ+ community, especially those who engage in sex work, to be cautious and protect their personal safety.
NCCASA will continue to advocate for policies that will combat violence, hatred, and injustice in our community. These lives should never have been cut short. Black Trans Lives Matter. Sex Workers Lives Matter.
Tyianna Alexander. Samuel Edmund Damián Valentín. Bianca “Muffin” Bankz. Dominique Jackson. Fifty Bandz. Alexus Braxton. Chyna Carrillo. Jeffrey “JJ” Bright. Jasmine Cannady. Jenna Franks. Diamond Kyree Sanders. Rayanna Pardo. Jaida Peterson. Dominique Lucious.
All the unnamed lives lost to anti-trans violence.
Monika Johnson Hostler
Executive Director, NCCASA
Safe and Accessible Resources in Charlotte:
- House of Kanautica (@HouseOfKanautica on Instagram)
- If you are a trans woman in Charlotte who is houseless or does not have access to safe housing, DM HouseOfKanautica on Instagram or fill out this form: tinyurl.com/saferhousingCLT
- Feed the Movement CLT (@FeedTheMovementCLT)
- Charlotte Uprising (@CLTUprising)
- NC National Lawyers Guild (919-408-7569)
Fund Safe Spaces for Black Trans Girls in Charlotte through the House of Kanautica:
- Cashapp: $HouseOfKanautica
- Venmo: @AshWilliamsCLT